In the West — meaning western Europe, North America and Australia/NZ — we don’t do death well. We try our best to avoid it and not discuss it, and in 2023, with greater acceptance of Medical Assistance in Dying (MAiD) we try not to prolong it.
Each week we received the weekend edition of a large metropolitan newspaper. I once avoided the obituaries, but now I check each week to make sure my name isn’t listed there! Seriously, it’s good to be living with dying in view. The writer of Ecclesiastes — sometimes referred to as “the preacher” — said that “It is better to go to a house of mourning than to go to a house of feasting, for death is the destiny of everyone; the living should take this to heart.” (7:2 NIV)
Jesus knew what awaited him in Jerusalem, and yet, he moved deliberately in its direction. When the time was come that he should be received up, he steadfastly set his face to go to Jerusalem. (Luke 9:51 KJV) I chose the older rendering of that verse because it incorporates the idea of Jesus being steadfast and setting his face towards that.
Maybe it’s the tradition associated with Good Friday in my own life, but let’s stay with the older translation for a moment and consider these words: Looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith, who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame… (Hebrews 12:2 KJV)
He knew that a greater glory awaited, but in his humanity, he recognized the severity of the suffering he would face. No wonder we see this scene: He went on a little farther and bowed with his face to the ground, praying, “My Father! If it is possible, let this cup of suffering be taken away from me. Yet I want your will to be done, not mine.” (Matthew 26:39 NLT)
A few days ago we looked at the three times in each synoptic gospel where Jesus predicts his death. In the first of these, Peter is adamant that this must not happen. Peter took him aside and began to reprimand him for saying such things. “Heaven forbid, Lord,” he said. “This will never happen to you!” (Matthew 16:22 NLT) In many respects, this response in Matthew 16 — and the other two predictions we looked at — are the balance to “let this cup be taken away.” Jesus, having in his incarnate body all of the human condition, presents conflicting emotions. He knows the cross awaits, but he’s not ecstatic about it.
Let’s go back to our opening statement. We don’t do death well in Western culture. Jewish culture has a tradition of “sitting shiva” a week-long period where close friends and close relatives visit — over many hours — the home of those who have suffered a loss. There are a number of facets to shiva we could enumerate here — and this Wikipedia entry to get you started — but we’ll summarize that much of it involves simply being present for those who have experienced the loss.
In Good Friday, Christians are invited to do the same. To use a phrase one pastor I know constantly repeats, to “sit with it.” To dwell on the accusations, betrayal, arrest, unjust trial, torture, taunts, humiliation and excruciating death of Jesus of Nazareth.
(For the linguists in the audience, yes, I know that’s a tautology, since excruciating literally means from the cross.)
Philippians 2:8 says that he, “humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death — even to death on a cross.” Note the use of the word even in many translations. He didn’t just live a human life and then die, it was a particular form of death.
Looking at that passage — sometimes called the kenosis passage — in detail a few years ago, we noted that, the progression is rather simple in verses 7 and 8. He
- took the nature of a servant
- entered into the human condition
- was obedient even to experiencing human death
- and a death of the worst kind at that
Even though we speak of the passage as being about “the humility of Christ” when we reach the nature of his death, it wasn’t just humbling, but rather it was humiliating. When he washed his disciples feet that was humility, but when he was beaten, stripped, and hung on a Roman cross, that was humiliation.
And yet he “sets his face” towards this.
Just a few weeks ago, Kentucky pastor Kyle Idleman was preaching about the exclusive claims of Christianity. You find that in verses like John 14:6 where Jesus says, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me;” and in Peter and John’s speech before the council of the High Priest in Acts 4:12 where they say “there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved.”
Kyle pointed out a different way of looking of looking at this. Namely, “no one else is coming for you.” Interesting. No one else is coming to your rescue. No one but Jesus. He resolutely determines to “set his face toward Jerusalem” to meet your sin and mine.
So much suffering awaits him.
But there a determination to go through it, even when in his humanity he cries out to God the Father to consider a different plan.
He did that for you.
We spend a day to sit with this.
We want to give you one last invitation to take some time to enjoy a Good Friday music playlist on YouTube. 30 songs, with a running time of about two hours. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hk7_SBxYSZs&list=PLzZfAjRN56ToEMue__ktGc2aC9gK54FqW