by Ruth Wilkinson
For years ago, a group of us decided recently to read Andy Stanley’s book Irresistible, which was the focus of some controversy in 2018. And, yeah, I found it somewhat challenging.
Challenge accepted. If my life is not to be governed by, for example, the Ten Commandments, but I know that they were there for a reason at the time, I needed to find out for myself how those principles and taboos turned up in the teachings of Jesus and in the letters to the early church.
Whether, and if so how, they were taught and exemplified by my brothers and sisters in The Way.
Here’s what I found:
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You have heard it said:
Do not have other gods besides Me.
And?
- Jesus told him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.”
John 14:6
- From that moment many of His disciples turned back and no longer accompanied Him. Therefore Jesus said to the Twelve, “You don’t want to go away too, do you?” Simon Peter answered, “Lord, who will we go to? You have the words of eternal life.”
John 6:66-68
So?
I look only to Jesus, and through Him to the Father.
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You have heard it said:
Do not make an idol for yourself, whether in the shape of anything in the heavens above or on the earth below or in the waters under the earth.
And?
- “If you want to be perfect,” Jesus said to him, “go, sell your belongings and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow Me.” When the young man heard that command, he went away grieving, because he had many possessions.
Matthew 19:21, 22
- The God who made the world and everything in it—He is Lord of heaven and earth and does not live in shrines made by hands. Neither is He served by human hands, as though He needed anything, since He Himself gives everyone life and breath and all things.
Acts 17:24, 25
So?
I’m called to avoid worshiping things I can touch and shape, things that are created by the One who created me. Even when those things are in my bank account.
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You have heard it said:
Do not misuse the name of the Lord your God, because the Lord will not leave anyone unpunished who misuses His name.
And?
- “Whoever welcomes one little child such as this in My name welcomes Me. And whoever welcomes Me does not welcome Me, but Him who sent Me.”
Mark 9:37
- “I appointed you that you should go out and produce fruit and that your fruit should remain, so that whatever you ask the Father in My name, He will give you.”
John 15:16
So?
If I am called by His name, I act in His name. And in His name I welcome, embrace, grow and bear fruit.
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You have heard it said:
Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy: You are to labour six days and do all your work, but the seventh day is a Sabbath to the Lord your God. You must not do any work.
And?
- Then He told them, “The Sabbath was made for man and not man for the Sabbath. Therefore, the Son of Man is Lord even of the Sabbath.”
Mark 2:27
- “Come to Me, all of you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. All of you, take up My yoke and learn from Me, because I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for yourselves. For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.”
Matthew 11:28-30
So?
I’m not obliged to sit idle on a particular day, but a day has been carved out for me to be free to rest. And the greatest rest of all is to be found in following the one who calls me.
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You have heard it said:
Honor your father and your mother so that you may have a long life in the land that the Lord your God is giving you.
And?
- Show family affection to one another with brotherly love. Outdo one another in showing honor.
Romans 10:12
- Pure and undefiled religion before our God and Father is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself unstained by the world.
James 1:27
So?
The family I find myself in, the family of the Church, is one in which I have the joy and the challenge of stepping back from my own self importance, and learning to serve, to honor, to elevate those around me. Especially the vulnerable.
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You have heard it said:
Do not murder.
And?
- “You have heard that it was said to our ancestors, ‘Do not murder,and whoever murders will be subject to judgment.’ But I tell you, everyone who is angry with his brother will be subject to judgment.”
Matthew 5:21-22
- None of you, however, should suffer as a murderer, a thief, an evildoer, or a meddler. But if anyone suffers as a “Christian,” he should not be ashamed but should glorify God in having that name.
1 Peter 4:15
So?
To indulge in the luxury of hatred not only wounds those around us, it wounds us. We carry the name of Christ. And His love is our standard.
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You have heard it said:
Do not commit adultery.
And?
- “But from the beginning of creation God made them male and female. For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two will become one flesh. So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, man must not separate.”
Mark 10:6-9
- “You have heard that it was said, ‘Do not commit adultery.’ But I tell you, everyone who looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
Matthew 5:27-28
So?
Adultery is a broken covenant. A tearing of flesh. A death of the heart. I have no right to kill a living promise.
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You have heard it said:
Do not steal.
And?
- The thief must no longer steal. Instead, he must do honest work with his own hands, so that he has something to share with anyone in need.
Ephesians 4:28
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But Zacchaeus stood there and said to the Lord, “Look, I’ll give half of my possessions to the poor, Lord! And if I have extorted anything from anyone, I’ll pay back four times as much!”
Luke 19:8
So?
Honest work is an opportunity to share my time, my ability and my earnings. A chance to err on the side of relationship and generosity.
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You have heard it said:
Do not give false testimony against your neighbour.
And?
- “You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbour and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.
Matthew 5:43
- Since you put away lying, speak the truth, each one to his neighbour, because we are members of one another.
Ephesians 4:25
So?
I put away dishonesty and speak truth, because my job is, as far as I am able, to love and to live in peace with my ‘neighbour’, which means everybody.
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You have heard it said:
Do not covet your neighbor’s house…. or anything that belongs to your neighbour.
And?
- Therefore I tell you, all the things you pray and ask for—believe that you have received them, and you will have them.
Mark 11:24
- I know both how to have a little, and I know how to have a lot. In any and all circumstances I have learned the secret of being content—whether well fed or hungry, whether in abundance or in need.
Philippians 4:12
So?
I stop looking around to see what I might be missing out on, and start looking up to the Father for what I actually need.
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